2 Peter 1:5-7
Growing in the Knowledge of God
5 So make every effort to apply the benefits of these promises to your life. Then your faith will produce a life of moral excellence. A life of moral excellence leads to knowing God better. 6 Knowing God leads to self-control. Self-control leads to patient endurance, and patient endurance leads to godliness. 7 Godliness leads to love for other Christians, and finally you will grow to have genuine love for everyone. (NLT)
Knowing God leads to self-control. In truth you cannot control your life because there are just too many variables that you cannot control. The more you try to control your life or even those around you the more out of control things will become. God has given you a free-will and that gives you the freedom to do two things – accept Him or reject Him. By accepting Him you need to allow Him to lead you into self-control and as He leads you into self-control that will then lead you into patient endurance and patient endurance leads to godliness. He will lead you through a progression into that which He created you to be. You cannot get there through your own power; you must trust God and His leading. Ultimately God leads you into unconditional love to love as He loves.
This is a walk with God that leads you into a progression of things, a walk that is a process, a walk that leads you to God's ultimate goal and a walk that is most satisfying. It is not always an easy walk -- if it was then everyone would be doing it. God has called you to this walk with Him because He knows that you can make it all the way with Him.
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